Why the #TripleTalaq bill is wrong, untenable and anti-women....
This new law being imposed upon society, says
that if a man pronounces three divorces at once, it would be considered null
and void (i.e. not even a single divorce would be counted) and he would be
imprisoned for 3 years and he would have to financially support his wife during
that time. Here are 10 reasons why this law is untenable:
1. It is
against Islamic law. Although there is a difference in opinion as to whether 3
divorces pronounced at once would be considered 3 or 1, there is no difference
over the fact that at least one divorce would have been pronounced. This new
law ordains something that is absolutely against Islamic personal law, and
hence an infringement upon our constitutional rights and privileges.
2. If the
divorce is not to be implemented, then why is the husband being punished? Why
is he being imprisoned for 3 years for a crime that has not been committed at
all?
3. If the
divorced wife lodges a complaint with the police against her husband, and the
triple divorce is rendered null and void, would any self-respecting man
continue to keep such a woman in her marriage? He was already unhappy with her
when he had divorced her, and now you expect him to accept her as his wife even
after the police complaint and imprisonment? How absurd!
4. Even
if the law of the land has not registered the divorce, Islamic law definitely
has. If the man and the woman continue to stay together as husband and wife
even after the pronouncement of three divorces, it would be considered zina (extra marital relation), which is
not only socially unacceptable, it is also a sin.
5. Once
the husband is behind bars, how would he financially support his wife?
6. If the
triple divorce was not registered, he might as well divorce her again and
financially support her only during her iddat.
7.
Islamic law allows the woman to remarry immediately after completing the iddat of 3 months (or completion of
pregnancy). If the divorce is not registered, she would still be considered his
wife. So she would not be able to marry another man. And since the man who has
divorced her won’t take her back, she would not remain married either. She
would remain abandoned with no one to take her in his marriage.
8. It
should also be known that even a single divorce can lead to permanent
separation. If the man does not want to retain her in marriage, he can do so
with even a single pronouncement of divorce. Arguing that only triple talaq
renders a woman a divorcee is not correct. Any divorce, in any community, in
any part of the world makes a woman a divorcee and separates her from her
husband.
9. Saying
that the divorcee is a victim is also incorrect. Marriage, in Islam, is a
social contract. And like all other contracts, this too can be ended. Islam
lays down a systematic procedure for this with plenty of options for
reconciliation and direct remarriage. If a person overrides those options and
pronounces triple talaq, he is exhausting all those options in one go. This is
why triple talaq is wrong, because he did not give his marriage a second
chance. It is not wrong because it victimizes anyone.
10. The
above points refute the ostensible claim that this law is in the interest of
women. Once a triple talaq has been pronounced, the woman no longer remains his
wife. Any attempts to convict the husband would only compound the problem
instead of solving it or providing any succor to the divorced wife.
If the
government is indeed concerned about the fate of divorced wives, it should
consult the religious scholars on this matter and try to find a way out.
Resorting to such ill-conceived laws only serves to betray the perverted intentions
of this regime.
Our maulvi's have failed to bring any reform concerning triple talaq during the time even though it is unislamic to pronounce TT in one sitting. 2ndly if our women DON'T, go to police, the act will not be enforced. This means we will have to correct our society. 3rly after experiencing bitter punishment of 3 years, very soon the pronouncing of TT will come into end. Now what is needed is to make the common muslim aware of this law so that refrain from pronouncing TT. Ab sirf yeh bta dizye ke maulviyon ne protest ke liye perda nasi aurtu ko julush kyu nikala. Kya uska 1% vi faida huwa ?
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